Connection · friendship · Northern Ireland

Find your people.
Be yourself.

A warm, sociable community for gay, bisexual and trans men—built around real friendship, shared experiences and a genuine sense of belonging.

At Belfast Pride · Together in the heart of our community

Easy-going socials

Friendly events with no pressure to be anyone but yourself.

Real connection

Meet people who understand and build friendships that last.

A safer space

A respectful, inclusive environment guided by clear community standards.

More than a night out

A place to show up as you are

The Mens Group brings people together across Northern Ireland. From coffee and cinema to Pride and nights out, every event is an opportunity to feel more connected.

Come on your own or bring a friend. Our organisers make sure new faces get a warm welcome and know what to expect.

Our story and values
Members of The Mens Group smiling together around a table
Everyone starts somewhere. Many of our regulars arrived at their first event not knowing anyone.

Make a plan

Coming up next

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Aug 1

Saturday · 14:00

Coffee & connection

An easy-going afternoon coffee for new faces and familiar friends.

Belfast city centre

Aug 12

Wednesday · 19:00

Pride planning social

Help shape our next Pride day and meet the people taking part.

Belfast

Conversation between events

There’s always someone to talk to.

Our Discord is home to friendly chat, spontaneous plans, helpful recommendations and plenty of good-natured banter.

Open The Mens Group Discord